Most women are dying to become wives without ever even reading a book about the role. They want the title but are not willing to do any research or sacrifice any of their “stuff”. I was watching a movie the other day and this woman put her job so high up on the scale of her life that her husband almost became a single parent. Women fight for their identity to the point they forget their joined with someone and they traded in the “I” for an “US”. I’m in no way shape or form saying that she should only be defined as a wife and mother, but when you get married your relationship should always be your top priority after God. If not it will crumble and only God knows if it will survive the break down.
Single ladies you could very well still be single due to issues and hang-ups that you are not noticing, be open for critiquing by a close friend or relative. I know there seems to be a shortage of men because when two gay guys get together that knocks out two options at once unlike when a woman snags one. But there are enough men still out there for you to be found.
Being a wife isn’t an easy job every single day. Some days it’s a walk in the garden and others it feels like a walk through hell. If you want your marriage to work you need to know how to walk through both places successfully. That come from learning, researching, growing, keeping an open mind, and preparing your self. Not from just thinking you’ll have it all together because you are such an awesome person. So many people divorce because they don’t have the strength to weather storms that could have been survived. That makes my heart sad.
So, what I’m saying in a nut shell is women PREPARE and PERFORM. If you are not a wife yet, prepare your mind and heart before you become one. And if you are already a wife, you need to perform as one and do what ever it takes to do it well. Because at the end of the day, we are accountable for our lives and our works.
Thank you for reading.