Its real easy to cheat on a husband that won’t pay you any attention or show you any love, but it ain’t easy to sin against a God who gives you his undivided attention and loves you so much and showed you by dying on the cross. We all get sick and tired of our spouses sin at one time or another! And if you say you haven’t then stay married and wait and see. But when someone steps outside of the marriage to have intimate needs meet by someone they are drawn to, you are sinning against God, not taking care of yourself and giving you what you need. God is not going to tell us to get our own needs met any way possible, that’s not in the bible that I read. When a partner goes out and sleeps with someone else they are not considering who they are disappointing the most, and that is an innocent God that deserves our all and our sacrificial life! Yes He died for all of our sins; past, present, and future, but He also provides a way of escape for His children when we are tempted to sin. Problem is we act as if that scripture doesn’t exist when we are in our flesh not loving our mates or our God. Your spouse may have pissed you off enough to go have sex with several people, but God hasn’t done anything but love you. Don’t do Him dirty when He promises to wash you clean!
1 Corinthians 10:13
You are tempted in the same way that everyone else is tempted. But God can be trusted not to let you be tempted too much, and he will show you how to escape from your temptations.