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A true bona fide man who understands his purpose will want to rescue you, let him. Maybe it’s from a crazy life style of weed and alcohol, maybe it’s from a filthy mouth, maybe it’s from poor eating habits, it could be a number of things. But he was designed by God to be your human savior.
Now does this all mean that if a man never comes along you will be without hope? Well of course not! We all know that women are doing things on their own! I got that. But if you are a married woman, a soon to be married woman, or a want to be married woman, you have to understand a mans need to rescue. The issue can be big or small, but if you always go around showing him how much you don’t need him for anything except sex, then he’s going to be unsatisfied. Let him lead you, teach you, and if you can’t get the jar open, just hand it to him! So what you can lift something heavy, stop breaking your back trying to prove you can pick it up and just let the man use his strength! I’m not saying be a weak unable, unstable prissy princess, (that’s not attractive) I’m just saying let him be your hero! Of course he has to be a worthy of the cape.
shriyan5678 said:
man and woman is the balance of nature with their own strength, modern society has almost switched positions… a man might at times discourage your unconditional love; but he will never forget for you for his life…
mrs relationship stuff said:
amen
Arielle a.k.a. Determinator1 said:
I like this post. A lot of single women have gotten so used to doing everything for themselves that the man winds up feeling he is only good for one thing. I have to admit after being single for so long, when my boyfriend came along, we would have mini verbal battles from time to time because anytime he saw me doing something he could help with, he would automatically do it without asking. It could be me standing on my tippy toes to get to one of the shelves in the kitchen cabinet, but before I could get to it, he was already there, taking it out. And he happens to be that way with everything, even if he has no idea of how to help, he still positions himself to help. It hasn’t been easy, but I have started to lean back a little and let him assume his role and do what he has been taught to do. In my mind I have to tell myself I’m proving nothing by stopping him from helping.
mrs relationship stuff said:
thanx Arielle for sharing your thoughts! and yes and amen to what you said!