If I shared with you everything that my husband and I have been through over the last 10 years you would not desire to be married.
But if I shared with you everything that my husband and I have been through over the last 10 years, you would want marriage with all of your heart!
When the person marrying us says “For better or worse” we never anticipated how worst the worse can get. When you are all in love and the emotions are flying, you can’t see the storms ahead. Some storms can be survived and some can’t. The only storm that calls for divorce is infidelity. And that’s only in the cases where a person just can’t seem to get past the affair.
Here is a list of 5 things that may indicate you need to reach out for help in your marriage. (Help being counseling)
1) You argue all the time and also in front of the children.
2) You are wishing you never married your spouse in the first place.
3) You are looking for a way out of the relationship.
4) You hate making love.
5) Someone is being abusive physically, emotionally, or verbally.
If you are in any of these situations please don’t stand alone, reach out for help. Don’t wait until your marriage is dead, because it’s easier to be healed, than it is to be brought back to life!