SOME PEOPLE WONDER WHY OTHERS HAVE BRICK WALLS UP AROUND THEIR HEART. THEY WONDER WHY THEY ARE SO GUARDED AND WON’T TAKE A RISK ON RELATIONSHIP. WELL, EVEN THOUGH I DONT HAVE A BRICK WALL UP, I HAVE HAD TO LEARN HEALTHY BOUNDARIES TO PROTECT MY HEART, AND I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY SOME MAY FEEL THE NEED TO DO SO.
MOST OF THE TIMES WHEN PEOPLE FIRST MEET YOU THEY ARE ALL HYPE AND EXCITED AND HAVE SO MANY AWESOME PLANS. A FRIENDSHIP STARTS OFF WITH SPARKS JUST LIKE THAT OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. ONE LADY/GIRL WANTS TO BE FRIENDS WITH THE OTHER OR THEY BOTH DO. IT’S USUALLY BECAUSE THEY SEE THINGS IN THE OTHER PERSON THAT ARE EXCITING AND THEY ADMIRE HER. THEY GET CLOSE REALLY FAST, RIGHT AWAY. THEN, (A SHORT WHILE IN) SOMEONE BECOMES OFFENDED, DISAPPOINTED, HURT , OR LET DOWN IN SOME SORT OF WAY. NOT ON PURPOSE, BUT IT HAPPENED. THE HURT FRIEND MAY HAVE EITHER HAD WRONG EXPECTATIONS, TOO HIGH EXPECTATIONS, UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, OR THE OTHER FRIEND WAS A HUMAN BEING. (I’M NOT TALKING A MAJOR OFFENCE HERE PEOPLE, BECAUSE SOME FRIENDS CROSS THE LINE FOR REAL AND NEED TO BE LEFT ALONE).
AFTER SOMETHING HAPPENS (AND SOMETHING ALWAYS DOES) TO ROCK THE BOAT OF THE FRIENDSHIP, WITHOUT A WORD SHE IS GONE! JUST LIKE A DUDE LEAVES AND HOPS OVER TO THE NEXT CHICK WHEN HE’S GOTTEN WHAT HE WANTED FROM YOU!
I’VE DISCOVERED PEOPLE DON’T ALWAYS WANT A TRUE FRIENDSHIP AND HALF OF THEM DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT IT CONSIST OF; TRUST, HONESTY, TRANSPARENCY, ACCOUNTABILITY, AND STORMS. THEY OFTEN WANT THE SAME FAIRY TALE THAT THEY WANT IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, AND GUESS WHAT…NEITHER TRULY EXIST. THAT JUST MEANS YOU DON’T ALWAYS HAVE A HAPPY FACE WHEN YOU BECOME CLOSE WITH SOMEONE FOR LIFE. LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP CAN AND SHOULD BE FUN, AND FREE, BUT YOU BETTER BELIEVE AND YOU BETTER EXPECT BUMPS, SHATTERS, SHAKES, AND STORMS. IF YOU ALWAYS RUN WHEN THE HEAT TURNS UP, YOU’LL NEVER MAKE IT TO THE HAPPY EVER AFTER!
 
QUESTION: WHAT ARE SOME TOP MAJOR THINGS THAT WOULD MAKE YOU CUT A FRIEND OFF?
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